أنا عربية ساكنة بقطر اللي هو المفروض كمان بلد عربي ، بس بحوي تقريبا 80 جنسية منها العربية والأجنبية . غير هيك شركتي " فودافون " بريطانية و بشتغلوا معي حوالي ال 60 جنسية ، هلأ بلا ما ازهئكم بالأرقام و خليني ادخل بالموضوع على طول.
، هلأ اشي عادي انه زميل يعجب بزميلته في الشغل و اشي اكتر من عادي قطر يكون من جنسية تانية وهون بتبدا المشكلة اذا بالغلط حبوا بعض هادا كمان اذا كان عربي نص مصيبة ، كيف لو كان اجنبي ، يا حبيبي راحت عليهم !!!
طيب اجنبي و امنا ، عادات و تقاليد غير ، بس شو المشكلة لما يكون عربي ، عالقليلة عنا نفس العقلية و الدين و الحياة , بس ادام المجتمع هادا من جنسية تانية ، طب وين المشكلة مش عم بفهم .
المفروض الواحد لما يلاقي نصه التاني ، يكون بفهمه و بفهم طريقة تفكيره و هادا كله ما الو دخل بالجنسية ، صراحة مش عارفة شو احكي بس انه بدكم تعيشوا ببلد في الف جنسية بدكم تستحملوا العواقب.
انتوا مستعدين تخوضوا هيك تجربة ؟؟؟
5 Openions !!!:
As a man living in europe, we are more exposed for such issue, but at least we already know the consequences so we never sink deeply in such shit.
talking about same-culture-ppl (arabian ppl) is something more crap than talking about western ppl who are already known by their traditions and cultures and openmindness, hence, its something like putting food infront of hungry person. what do you expect? the same applies for arab nationalities.
(with all due respect to all nationalities mentioned below)
do you accept to marry an egyption and commit to all costs of marriage? :-) or even to marry syrian and make your wedding in their way? or lebanese and accept the fact of having more than 1 GF at the sametime? or gulfian whos willing to get married to hundreds at the same time? I myself prefer to get married to a JO/PAL; at least i know her family/life shit and can sink in happily! moreover, no need for lets-be-homeless thingie and give the chance for her to decide where we should live.. in my country or her country or even some other country...
I dont think its love! i think its a crush or so..
my suggestion: dont shit where you eat..
good luck
P.S: odd thinker.. i know!
3mro,
Respects for your last words..
dont shit where you eat!!...to some extent...
but relatively its true..
I can and talk for hours about this subjects, but im going to make it a bit shorter..
What I think is that if the feeling of love and all that crap is true, and understanding is of a 'higher' level than 'il khawa oo lawe il dra3'.. differences is a very good chance to make the bond between the two in a relationship stronger.. I simply symbolize that to a pedal.. the difference by moving the pedal around is the reason for the bike or boat to move...
but as the saying goes (which I hate) "min 6een bladak, lu6 3a khdadak"!!! I hope they could get a better expression!!! but this should do :P
3mro
welcome to my space,i agree with ur point of view in a way , that u won't know wut other traditions "specially arabs" have hidden things. but at the same they still hold the same religions and if not , understands ur values !!
ala' i agree with u also as i agree with 3mro ,when they say love is blind , it is sometimes !!! so thats it ...
anyways all this issue is not happening with me , but it could happen or has happend before .. !!!
It does not work always .. it works sometimes though ..it depends on how muh you can accept the variation of "culture" and be ready to adapt yourself to it.. it is not only the way you think and believe .. it is also the way you run your daily life .. the way you eat, drink, spend your time, and many details...
Amjad
Soo true , it depends on the person himself iza bit2ablha aw l2 , w 3la el-ahil kaman ...
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